Jim

Jim has always been my rock.  He is amazing and strong.  And sometimes when he should cry he doesn't.  Instead he gets kind of grumpy.  Finally, over the weekend, I asked him how he was doing because he was not freaking out yet.  He told me 'I am specially trained to be able to calmly handle extremely stressful situations' LMAO!!!! I mean really, I was laughing HARD!  Yes Jim you were- but NONE of those situations ever included you wife having breast cancer.  Or having her boobs chopped off.  Nothing prepares you for this.  Nothing.  But he is talking to me about it, and I think he is at least sort of dealing with it.  I hope that he is, but I worry about him.